Love and Relationship Matters

24 MISTAKES YOU DON'T KNOW YOU ARE MAKING AS A SPOUSE

Many times in our relationships with our spouses, we make certain mistakes that we don't know that we are making – which can deeply affect the quality of our relationships. Look at twenty four of them below and seek to make changes fast!

(1) When you don't forgive the little daily irritations from your spouse.

(2) When you find it difficult to simply apologise or say sorry.

(3) When you forget to intentionally pray together.

(4) When you don't intentionally create time here and there to have little or deep talks.

(5) When you take the blessing from your spouse for granted and forget to express gratitude.

(6) When you place your children above your spouse.

(7) When you fail to simply say "I love you" to your spouse from time to time.

(8) When you place sex before romance.

(9) When you don't take time to really rest from the hustling and bustling of life.

(10) When you neglect your health because of the pressing needs of your career or business.

(11) When you frequently forget to call each other during the day.

(12) When you always delight in unnecessary argument with your spouse.

(13) When you join people to criticise your spouse.

(14) When you speak bad of your spouse to your family.

(15) When you don't demonstrate respect for your mother or father in law.

(16) When you don't intentionally seek after knowledge as regards the family life.

(17) When you place your friends above your spouse.

(18) When you hide money from your spouse.

(19) When you hide your investments from your spouse.

(20) When you harbour negative thoughts about your spouse.

(21) When you subtly or openly compete with your spouse.

(22) When you don't give gift to your spouse on his or her birthday.

(23)When you place money above your relationship.

(24) When you don't encourage ardent spirituality in your spouse.

Contributed by Dr. Joseph Deji - Folutile 

He is the Publisher of a life changing magazine called FAMILY DIGEST which has helped lots of relationships linked to family values. 

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George Momah